How do you move on when you no there is nothing else you can do? When you still live with your mother? How do you go above and beyond and let it go because it's never going to change? And how do you seperate and form your own identity?
How does one forgive when one still hurts?
I've done that in the past 3 years. You need to find yourself again. Me and my ex-wife split and I had a difficult time getting on my feet. But I eventuly did and everything is great now. I'm going back to college and trying to make my life better. Maybe a little to prove I can. It may take time but don't give up and always remember you are a great person and can do great things.
How does one forgive when one still hurts?
You make a list of all the people you have hurt. You might realize the one who hurt you is not so bad and that you should forgive them.
Swallow your pride, just keep your civility. Once something is said it can never be taken back, but you only live one life.
Well, there is a lot t be said for being an independent person you should try it sometime.